Pornography

I know, you might be thinking, why in the world would I talk about pornography?! Yeah, I thought so. I was skeptical and somewhat unsure wheather I should talk about it or not `cause I know that it is a very controversial topic and many people do have different views and own opinions considering pornography. But...I thought this would be a interesting topic to write about. You dont necessarily have to agree with anything I say, again, this is just my opinion. (trying to prevent trouble ^^)

Earlier, one of my friend (should remain annoynomous) and I was having a conversation and somehow, for some odd reason, we came talking about pornography. Yes, of course, this friend of mine is a guy and he of course had different opinions as to what I believed in. I'm just going to be straight up. Here goes...I think porn is uneccesary. THERE, I said it. I could give you many reasons as to why i think its uncessary. Ok, maybe unceccesary is NOT THE CORRECT use of word to describe pornography in my eyes, but I feel like its just a waste of time watching. Why do guys watch it? Yea, we all know. Because it turns them on, correct? Is it normal for guys to watch porn? Um...I think in this world, everyone thinks that watching porn is "normal" and I guess it is for guys? But, it really bothers me how guys (NOT ALL GUYS, dont get me wrong) dedicate most of their time in front of the computer watching porn, I mean, seriously? do you have a life?! Again, I'm not saying that all guys do this, but I did learn some things in regards to this topic, and it just disgusts me.

I guess if youre single and you dont have a spouse, wife, gf, bf, whoever....maybe its still reasonable, i dont know? I could care less, but if you are married or in a relationship, in my opinion, I dont think it's right to watch porn. In my eyes, it is the same thing as cheating on your own spouse or whoever it may be. It's disrespectful and rude. Why would you watch porn if youre married or in a relationship? It's like saying that you arent thankful for your partner, and you rather watch some women on the internet for hours rather than your partner...that just bothers me. Its sick. I just dont appreciate it. I know this topic is very controversial, and you might be saying, so what? But I find this topic very disturbing and serious in some way. I mean, I guess if both partners agree to watch it togeather, then maybe that is still reasonable, but imagine you discover that your spouse or partner watches porn behind your back, doesnt that hurt you? I mean, wouldnt that mean something to you? It certainly would for me. It's like another way of saying that he doesnt appreciate your body and rather watch other women's body and enjoying it rather than spending quality time with you. It is really sick. It makes me sick writing this. I really dont appreciate it, and for those guys who does do this, please respect your partner. I dont think it is something that I could forgive if it happened to me. It just all comes down to respect. IF you want to be treated with respect, then treat us with respect. After all, women are smarter than men (it's true) we are not stupid or naive, just so you know :)

Anyway, that's it for now. I should be heading back studying. I got almost everything done except chp 9 which I will finish tomorrow. g`nite bloggers

Jess